Journal Entry/ Random Thoughts..


Dress- Flair [similar here] / Heels – Primark / Bag – Market in Lagos

This gorgeous dress is from Flair, although this particular one is sold out i have added a link to a similar one which is currently on sale. I opted for gold heels and also this really cute bag from Oba Elegushi market.Β 

Hey guys, this week i thought i would share an entry journal which you can probably tell from the title, here we go. For the last couple of months, i have reminded myself to keep dreaming but to also find beauty in every season., in other words to keep aspiring and believing in what i want but to not get sucked into thinking that it is only when i get XYZ that is when i will truly be happy.

It can be hard to remain positive when everything around you is not working out or when things are not going as you thought they would. It’s tempting to speak from your emotions or from pain but NO STOP YOURSELF instead speak what you want to see. It may sound cliche or whatever and things may not even change straight away but you must keep going.

Don’t believe the lie I will be happy when XYZ works out, because if you really think about it each time you’ve said that to yourself it not only deprived you of being content in the current season that you are in, but it has actually made you very bitter about it.

So in summary ;

  • Happiness is a choice, do not allow your reality to determine your happiness.
  • Every season has some sort of lesson, learn, grow and persevere.
  • All things are working for your good, you might not feel/see it but it is.
  • Your process is yours, it is specific to you and your purpose so don’t compare your process to someone else.
  • Be grateful and celebrate every victory.
  • Your words are powerful, use them wisely.

Thanks soo much for stopping by, i know this is an unusual post [sort of], hope you liked it. X

15 thoughts on “Journal Entry/ Random Thoughts..

  1. Excuse me lady, can I please squeeze into that dress with you? Looool, but you look so good in it. I’m glad you wrote about this, an important thing I’ve learnt this year is that feelings are not the truth, so I cant live my life based on how I feel because my emotions are a roller coaster. Instead, life is meant to be lived by the truth, which is how God designed it to be lived.

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    1. Loool thanks soo much baby girl πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•! I completely agree the whole emotion roller coaster I can completely relate, I’m always having to remind myself to not let my emotions dictate my actions or mood. God help us πŸ’•πŸ’•


  2. Nice write up! And the quality of ur pictures=MAADD!! I love to see Nigerian women doing it BIG! Just followed on IG. Well done πŸ‘πŸΎπŸ‘πŸΎ. Also, babe, u can’t leave out the details on ur fro now.. 😭😭. It’s so nice. Where can I get a similar hair? Is it crochet? What brand?biko, I really like it!

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    1. Thank you very much πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•. It’s actually crochet i can’t remember what the hair is called I think it’s Impression. But you can get it with any Afro hair really.


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